Friday, 15 March 2013

The Tao Te Ching: A journey of interpretation and application


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An introduction
As you may have read in my other new blogs concerning the law of attraction, Dr Wayne Dyer being a highly influential person to me. I have decided to under take a challenge that Wayne set for himself one that led him to write a book on the subject. Over a period of a year he studied, meditated practiced the Principles of the Tao De Ching. Dr Dyer decided to take on one verse of the 81 verse long Tao De Ching and do the latter over a period of 4 days for each verse. I intend to walk in his foot steps and share my experience and my findings. Note that it DOES NOT matter what religion you follow or even if you do not have a religion. We can all apply these life long principles.




A little bit of background
Laozi is traditionally regarded as the author of the Daodejing (Tao Te Ching), though the identity of its author(s) and/or compiler(s) has been debated throughout history.[26][27] It is one of the most significant treatises in Chinese cosmogony. As with most other ancient Chinese philosophers, Laozi often explains his ideas by way of paradox, analogy, appropriation of ancient sayings, repetition, symmetry, rhyme, and rhythm. In fact, the whole book can be read as an analogy - the ruler is the awareness, or self, in meditation and the myriad creatures or empire is the experience of the body, senses and desires. Passages such as "Block the openings, shut the doors" and "the sage who does nothing never ruins anything" refer to sitting in meditation. "Keep the people ignorant" means do not pay attention to the senses and thoughts.
The Tao Te Ching, often called simply Laozi after its reputed author, describes the Dao (or Tao) as the source and ideal of all existence: it is unseen, but not transcendent, immensely powerful yet supremely humble, being the root of all things. According to the Daodejing, humans have no special place within the Dao, being just one of its many ("ten thousand") manifestations. People have desires and free will (and thus are able to alter their own nature). Many act "unnaturally", upsetting the natural balance of the Dao. The Daodejing intends to lead students to a "return" to their natural state, in harmony with Dao.[28] Language and conventional wisdom are critically assessed. Taoism views them as inherently biased and artificial, widely using paradoxes to sharpen the point.
-Reference used from Wikipedia-
Laozi(LaoTze)
Laozi 6th century BCE) was a philosopher of ancient China, best known as the author of the Tao Te Ching (often simply referred to as Laozi).[3] His association with the Tào Té Chīng has led him to be traditionally considered the founder of philosophical Taoism (pronounced as "Daoism"). He is also revered as a deity in most religious forms of Taoist philosophy, which often refers to Laozi as Taishang Laojun, or "One of the Three Pure Ones".
According to Chinese traditions, Laozi lived in the 6th century BCE. Some historians contend that he actually lived in the 5th–4th century BCE, concurrent with the Hundred Schools of Thought and Warring States Period,[4] while some others argue that Laozi is a synthesis of multiple historical figures or that he is a mythical figure.
A central figure in Chinese culture, both nobility and common people claim Laozi in their lineage. He was honored as an ancestor of the Tang imperial family, and was granted the titleTáishāng xuānyuán huángdì, meaning "Supreme Mysterious and Primordial Emperor". Throughout history, Laozi's work has been embraced by various anti-authoritarian movements.
-Referenced from Wikipedia-
Dr Wayne Dyer- A highly recommended video if/when you have the time
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yar023enYEA
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Getting started
Over the next four days I will be contemplating, meditating, studying the meaning and learning how to apply these teachings in modern day to day life/world . I shall comment and update with how I am getting on, any difficulties, any light bulb moments and my general experiences on my journey of self discovery and enlightenment. This really is a journey to search for the new me, I want to be open minded in a way that I never have been, I want to be open to new thoughts, ideas and ways of doing things. Please feel free to comment on your interpretations and thoughts of this verse.




The Tao Te Ching
Verse One

1. The Way

The Way that can be experienced is not true;
The world that can be constructed is not true.
The Way manifests all that happens and may happen;
The world represents all that exists and may exist.
To experience without intention is to sense the world;
To experience with intention is to anticipate the world.
These two experiences are indistinguishable;
Their construction differs but their effect is the same.
Beyond the gate of experience flows the Way,
Which is ever greater and more subtle than the world.
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DAY ONE 09/03/13 18:05-
As I begin to read the first verse "The Way" I wonder to myself if this is something I will ever begin to fully understand, I pose this question to myself. I know I first need to just think  about the words and the possible meanings  and not worry to much about the complexities   , so reading the words I end up searching on the internet for the best meditation practices to help find answers to self posed questions, here is what I found and this is what I will need to do:
go ahead and do your meditation techniques, stilling your body and mind, opening your heart, and lifting your consciousness as close to a super conscious state as possible. Do your best, during this time, NOT to think of the question.
At the close of your meditation, when you are as calm and uplifted as possible, wait for the answer to your question to come into your mind. Often it will come at that point. If not, have faith that it will come later, either at your next meditation time, or even during the day when you are least expecting it or in a dream at night.







Day 2 10th March 2013
Today I feel like a sponge. Yesterday I attracted the idea to begin this journey of personal discovery and research of  The Tao Te Ching
I began to establish and introduce the intention of my blog and therefore I began to create this page. I told myself that I needed to meditate and I sought out how best to go about this as you may have read in my post yesterday.I down loaded a free app on my IPAD it was entitled "Meditation, The law of attraction" I also have an app that is a meditation for Wisdom which I think is extremely suitable for my purpose. I have not yet been able to do my meditations as I have been spending time with my family and I have been sharing my findings with them, which I think is all part of this process. By talking and writing more aspects of my blogs it has led me to feel a great abundance of gratitude which in turn will help manifest without a doubt the mind-set needed to understand "The Way".
A FEELING- I think what Loazi was trying to say was that we need to focus on the now, experience our world as it comes. Do not desire! for to desire is to admit  to not having it already. Live as Dr Wayne Dyer says live  in contentment. Stop labeling things and just chill out! Stop questioning things just BE don't worry about what you don't know for you do not need to know everything in order to live a happy life and feel connected to "THE SOURCE OF ALL BEING" 








Day 3 11th March 2013
I sat down to write this evening after a busy day at work, feeling tired(a good tired) and vibrant all at the same time. I have had a positive day at work and felt happy throughout the day without ANY negative thoughts or feelings which I am delighted with, all in all a perfect day. As I sat down to begin writing I began to feel at a loss for words, they just would not come or flow in the way I wanted them to. It disheartened me a little bit, I decided to come away from my computer and run a lovely bath with some incense burning(something I have recently got into) and took my new book in with me, another Wayne Dyer book of course:-) with the convenient title of "Spiritual solutions to problems" a book that is inspired by many of the teachings that I am now delving into. I read, enjoyed the lovely warm water that enveloped me and breathed in  the unwinding smell of the incense and tried to get to my place of calm and re tune my thoughts and feelings, it took me awhile if I am honest but then it hit me! since feeling good an inspired this was the first opportunity I had to really apply the principles of the Tao Te Ching (the night before I had re read the first verse of THE WAY and then put on my meditation ,I did not think I was really any closer than where I had been before the meditation and I went to sleep. but like my quote from the previous days says "have faith that it will come later, either at your next meditation time, or even during the day when you are least expecting it or in a dream at night."
I believe this moment has come! by feeling disheartened, which will happen from time to time, I was able to suddenly realize that instead of worrying that I have nothing to write on my blog, I must be in the now, I must embrace my life for every day, hour,minute, second etc... I must trust in the source of all being and allow things to unfold on there own as with all things. I know if I vibrate on this higher level of contentment, love and gratitude the things I need will manifest when appropriate- IT IS NOT MY JOB TO HOW HOW THINGS IN MY LIFE WILL UNFOLD BUT TO KNOW THAT THEY WILL CERTAINLY UNFOLD



another translation of the Tao Te Ching that has reached me:
Tao is
beyond words
and beyond understanding.
Words may be used to speak of it,
but they cannot
contain it.
Tao existed
before words and names,
before heaven and earth,before the
ten thousand things. It is unlimited
father and mother of all
limited things.
Therefore,
to see beyond all boundaries
to the subtle heart of things ,dispense
with names, with concepts, with expectations and ambitions
and differences.
Tao and its
many manifestations arise
from the same source:subtle wonder
within mysterious
darkness.
This is
the beginning of all
understanding .







Day 4 12th March 2013
Anita Moorjani
"Dying to be me"
My(HER) Journey from Cancer, to Near Death to true Healing
I must share with you another book recommendation that was also discussed in Dr Wayne Dyer's "Wishes fulfilled" and I feel is worth contemplating in order to continue on the path to discovering and becoming aware of that all powerful source. 
Blurg- from Anita's book
In this truly inspirational memoir, Anita Moorjani relates how, after fighting cancer for almost four years, her body - overwhelmed by the malignant cells spreading throughout her system- began shutting down. As her organs failed, she entered into an extraordinary near-death experience where she realized her inherent worth... and the actual cause of her disease. Upon regaining consciousness , Anita found that her condition had improved so rapidly that she could be released from the hospital within weeks... without a trace of cancer in her body!
Within these pages, Anita recounts stories of her childhood in Hong Kong, her challenge to establish her career and find true love, as well as how she eventually ended up in the hospital bed where she defied all medical knowledge.
As part of a traditional Hindu family, Anita had been pushed and pulled by cultural and religious customs since she was a young girl. After years of struggling to forge her own path while trying to meet everyone elses expectations, she had a realization- as a result of her epiphany on the other side that she had the power to heal herself... and that there are miracles in the Universe that she had never even imagined.
In Dying to be me, Anita freely shares all she has learned about illness, healing, fear, 'being love' and the true magnificence of each and every human being.
What Wayne Dyer said about Anita and her book 
"For more than four years , an advancing cancer brought Anita to deaths doorstep and beyond inside the house of death itself.  Anita has described in great detail in this soul-searching book. I encourage you to read it very carefully and thoughtfully with a mind that's open to having many of your cherished beliefs challenged, especially about what lies beyond this world."
from my own understanding and what I am learning on a deep personal level about the law of attraction and the universal source that we are all part of is very precious to me I am gradually allowing myself to open up and to let it all come to me. I am learning not to worry about what the answer is to my questions, I am letting go of doubts and just living in contentment and I am anticipating a great present and future for myself.   I have posted this on two of my blog pages as I feel this information fits in with sharing experiences but also my journey to apply the Tao Te Ching.

13th March-16th March 2013

I have made a (Tao Te Ching principled)decision that instead of writing everyday on the Tao Te Ching verse that I am currently focusing on, I am going to allow four days for myself to meditate, consider and apply these teachings and then at the end of the fourth day write about my discovers and experiences . I am doing this because this is what feels right for me I by following the Tao will let my choices unfold in front of me and be all the more satisfying as a result.
Over the next two days if who ever are reading my words think for yourself on the below verse.

Verse 2

Tao Te Ching
When people see some things as beautiful,
other things become ugly.
When people see some things as good,
other things become bad.
Being and non-being create each other.
Difficult and easy support each other.
Long and short define each other.
High and low depend on each other.
Before and after follow each other.
Therefore the Master
acts without doing anything
and teaches without saying anything.
Things arise and she lets them come;
things disappear and she lets them go.
She has but doesn't possess,
acts but doesn't expect.
When her work is done, she forgets it.
That is why it lasts forever.





A thought I feel
D.C Lau-" I find that insight comes not from any answers that a translation (or anything else) offers, but rather from the questions it (or experience) evokes. Questions, puzzlement, mystery all turn the light of Consciousness on, while answers just put it to sleep. That’s all right though; sleep feels good too.
Of course, as this verse suggests, answers and questions give birth to each other. In light of this, how shall I proceed? Sit as loose to life as possible is the advice this chapter gives. If both sides of everything are so intimately intertwined (inseparable) holding out for one side or the other feels like an unrelenting struggle. Therefore, considering this, the wise person manages without doing anything… This defies common sense naturally. Yet, it is the only way that actually works. I’d paraphrase it this give birth to each other process as ‘All under heaven realize common sense as common sense, there is folly already’."


It makes me realize that having lows ensures the ability to have highs and this in turn increases the intensity of the high. It is impossible for us to feel in a state of euphoria 24/7, and Certainly important to try to live in contentment, when feeling low or disheartened, instead of feeling beaten ,use it as a sign that your not feeling good to look after yourself, perhaps just accept the fact that your not feeling good, it will be OK  and remember that a positive/good feeling is always stronger than a negative/bad feeling, and in all honestly don't feel bad about not feeling your best, when you feel and think positively(when you're ready!) this will trump the bad and allow you to keep on drawing good into your life.
Just live, take life as it comes, try not to worry and give yourself what you need when feeling bad.
Funny enough I have a great example of my own to share with you, which I think applies to what I am talking about. Yesterday  at work I took my last phone call of the day it turned into a raging complaint, the person was insulting and very unkind to me  even though the issue was not my fault, it led me to feel quite flat and I thought about it all the way home and right into the next morning. It is not a nice experience for anyone to go through. I then began to think about the second verse I had been reading and contemplating and realized that I have no idea what led this man to get so angry and direct his abuse in such a personal way when it clearly was not my fault!  I stared to even feel empathy for this man to my great surprise. My first call the next day (today) was a lovely appreciative and genuinely thankful man, he told me how grateful he was at my obvious concern and care, this really cheered me and I completely forgot the earlier negative feelings that made me feel icky.  I am back to feeling great again, I feel like patting myself on the back for coming to this realization.




The 16th March 2013


Its a rainy Saturday morning and I cant wait for spring and summer to show itself  again. I  realize that it is the final day of  inhaling this beautiful second verse, it has been a great experience so far and for the first time I feel like in my life I am sticking to something, I know this is no coincidence, I have only stuck at this because I have applied the principles that I am learning about. I have over come feelings of doing things because I feel I have to whether that be from the influence of others and myself. Everything I have done this week is what I have felt like doing, I have felt content, happy and take so much more enjoyment out of the things that I am doing. I haven't suffered anywhere near like I usually do with my depression over the last two weeks, I think and feeling like starting this has been my salvation. Thank you for those who have read this so far, I hope it has inspired you like it has inspired me. Happiness is truly something we gain from within.
“With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.”
― Wayne W. Dyer

Gratitude diary


My Gratitude diary for 2013
I am from this day on for the rest of 2013  going to post, like the original Pollyanna plan, something that has brought me happiness and/or fulfillment each day in order to experience the benefits of gratitude in my life and to share the like with you. "Thank you Pollyanna plan, you're an inspiration"
9th March 2013
I am thrilled to begin my new gratitude blog. Today has unraveled so many things to be great full and happy about. I am writing this blog for a starters along with my attraction in action blog. I feel positive about this, ready for action and I have no niggling thoughts about how well I might be writing my blog and if it will be successful or useful to others. Wayne Dyer an inspirational author of many books, lecturer and teacher which you will certainly see me quoting a lot in my blogs, says this: "Think small to achieve great things" "Live in the now"  "don't worry about the finished product, one year, one step, one hour, one minute,one second at a time" This idea is something I am trying to live by and I feel that it certainly is the right pathway to success if I think too much about everything I want to achieve in my life and how much work, effort and energy it will take for me to get there I certainly would feel very disheartened so I therefore encourage you to do the same in all aspects of your life. I am so happy, I have finally received our wedding photos, it is something I have been putting off organizing for I have absolutely no idea why. We got married on 25th August 2010, so yes this is a great things for me. I love he pictures they are perfect and they fill me with happy memories, I feel a wonderful happiness over come me. I am so great full that I have been able to manifest this into my life.
"Thank you to the Pollyanna plan for inspiring me"
10th March 2013
Today I am feeling fabulous, and I am thank full for it as the last few months prior to me reawakening my knowledge and remembrance of attraction and what it means I had been suffering a lot more so with my depression at it was kind of taking up most of my time. Since I've made myself aware again everything seems to be going well, I am happier and more motivated and seem to been drawing lovely experiences into my life. Last night my husband and my brother went out for the day and had a night out, I stayed with my parents to spend some time with them, we had a lovely evening of laughter and encouragement. I showed them the video of Dr Wayne Dyer I published on my blog and it seemed to get them thinking which is great, I would be so happy if they could latch on to what I have done, and lead an even happier life because of it- there's nothing that can beat seeing your family and loved ones happy,there was plenty of that this morning the house includes people with hangovers, aka my brother, my hubby doesn't really get drunk so he is just a little tired. The whole family has been laughing teasing and generally having a great time with one another, a perfect Sunday Morning/Afternoon. So that is it in a nut shell today I am so great full to have a happy family, a close family and a  very happy and loving marriage.
11th March 2013
I'm am so great full to be able to sit down and write this blog after a busy but fulfilling day at work, writing  relaxes me and in particular this gratitude journal allows me to focus on my happiness and nothing else. So down I sit, I put some chill out music on, crank up the heating  and write to you, all things of which  I am thankful I can do.
My day at work has left me feeling vibrant and in source, since I began using the law of attraction I have seen it work miracles, I am so much happier already. I have taken on more projects at work and today my manager choose me to represent our team to various departments and give an overview of what our team does, this also included some one to one overviews, I was nervous, but I felt great, and it went well just as I imagined and believed it would. I am so so thankful that I am beginning to draw so much , so much! incredible happiness into my life.  I feel so powerful and finally in control of  my thoughts and emotions. I believe that depression cannot hold me down or hold me back, yes I might have to battle it but I am determined to enjoy the journey, as it is said "happiness is a journey not a destination" I am thrilled that I am learning how to apply the Tao Te Ching that I have been writing about and developing in my other blog- I truly am focusing on the now and that is why ultimately I believe I am manifesting what I need, even if I don't know what that "need" is.
12th March 2013
I am really feeling great full today for the scenic views from my window this morning, snow has covered that ground it is pretty much blizzard conditions outside. Instead of feeling negative about the snow which can occupy a lot of minds, I felt calm and appreciative, I imagined the snow to be refreshing the earth and then when going out in it to head for work, refreshing me mentally and physically, even though I felt like I was going to freeze, I felt a cleansing feeling. It felt good!  I felt a deep sense of gratitude and a knowing that I was attracting even more to be grateful for.
I am also grateful that I am right! I am right about expecting to manifest even more, even in small things, at work everything I deal with, every task I have under gone has resolved and been completed positively and smoothly and the gratitude returned for my efforts.
I AM HAPPY, I AM GRATEFUL
13th March 2013
Right, second attempt to write down my gratitude for yesterday and today(it did not update properly) Now I didn't get to write yesterday, but for nice reasons that only added to my list of things to be grateful for- I spent time with my family, I love having them around and knowing that it is so easy to see them when that is not always the case for some families.
I am also feeling very motivated and focused as since I have gone into manifesting mode I have attracted more work which has given me a welcomed challenge I have been able to use my skills to the full and at the same time I have had all the time I need to complete on my task promptly. I am so grateful that the law of attraction is working and I am using it to my full potential I couldn't be happier which is such a gigantic step to how I was two weeks ago.
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14th March 2013
Wow wow wow!
I am so grateful to myself for applying the law of attraction! I have drawn yoga into my life, I have been pondering on the health benefits of yoga since reading Dr Wayne Dyers book "Wishes fulfilled" and hearing his views on yoga and how it benefits him, later on I was reminded of yoga via "The Pollyanna plan"- see from my blogs I follow. I intended to start Yoga but I was not going to force myself into it, I planned to let it just unfold and do it when I felt ready. Today I was enjoying our relaxation room at work reading Anita Moorjanis book "Dying to be me" and someone popped in the room to return the stolen cushions from the sofa, this lady apologized for disturbing my quiet time and said she was just returning these cushions that they had borrow for the free yoga tasting session that took place, I suddenly became a lot more aware of the lady and questioned her further she said that they were thinking of making a regular thing. I felt so happy and it hit me that I had attracted this to my life it couldn't just be such a big coincidence, I felt so grateful I allowed this grateful feeling to fill me up and felt even more exciting knowing that as a result I am just going to bring more of what I need into my life- everything the Tao Te Ching teaches as well. I emailed the man in charge of the initiative to ask about it and he emailed me back within seconds saying that they were definitely going to hold more session and only for a few pounds donations PERFECT!
THANK YOU SOURCE
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The 16th March 2013
I woke up today feeling great, I am feeling happy, calm, pure and have a strong sense of well being- and this is why today I feel flooded with gratitude today. Nothing could be better, I haven't  felt depressed for nearly two weeks which never used to be the case and I haven't felt the need to force myself to be happy. I have been living in contentment. This feeling cannot be beaten and I feel wondrous things are brewing out there for me.

The law of attraction


Attraction in action
"Using the power of Gratitude, positive thinking/feeling, we will attract what ever it is we need into our lives. Our job is to know what we want and not worry about how that something,someone,experience will come to us. All we have to know that it is coming" 
My intention in writing this blog
It is my INTENTION to relay, gather and share people’s experiences of using the power of attract/intention that they have used to attract into their lives miracles and life experiences, and to also share any valuable information that has helped me . It is my intention to bring us together and deepen our faith and ability to attract and intend anything we want into our lives. After learning the law of attraction for myself, it is something I feel deeply about and I believe in it with every cell of my being. There is so much pure truth of this in my life and in the world. My aim at writing this blog is to like I said share the proof and eat the pudding together, I am only interested in spreading the word and my own experiences and to show my deep gratitude to those who have put these ideas that have always existed out there for our grasp and have made it accessible in order to help others.
Something about me
I have depression and have struggled with this for a long time, I am not the type of person to give up or give in, and it was this fact about myself that led me to learn about the law of attraction and develop a desire to share my experience and the things that have made a big impact on my life.
I have always had a very supportive family. A precious gem, my mother, first began to instill these in me. It was my mum who learnt the secret of intention and passed it on to me. I can remember her always making reference to positive thinking and telling me as I grew up that I could be anything that I wanted to be, as a child, of course I did not fully understand or appreciate what this meant for me to grasp this concept of “thought become things”- feeling being the major ingredient for success. At 22 I have already seen this profound influence work on me and I know I have only just scratched the surface of what I can now manifest into my life…. I have no doubt of this which leaves me inspired and feeling positive for what I am beginning…
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Inspired
My blog as you know is all about discovering experiences of the law of attraction etc...
to get straight to the point. I sat down to write some more of my blog and came across the author of the Pollyanna plan. I have not read much of it yet but I plan to read the blog from the start and follow her experience for the year. This person is someone who is often ill and seems to have suffered all her life. She has come up with the idea to find something to be happy about everyday for 365 days, A year! she has set up a just giving page for people to donate to her chosen charity and is doing all this in hope of becoming a happier and healthier person. I must say I think it is inspirational and might attempt the same hing myself as this is really something that fits in with the purpose of my own blog. "its all about sharing"
(I have posted her recent blog for you to have a look at)
A message to the author of the Pollyanna plan- thank you very much for sharing this wonderful blog I am sure it will inspire anyone who reads it just as it has for me x
I had to include this experience from the Pollyanna plan archive, it is such a simple yet brilliant example of doing something to lift your mood, this really made me smile.  
“Tonight, I’m going to have myself a real good time, I feel ali ii ii iiiive!”
To be honest, I haven’t felt very alive today and as the hours ticked by I was getting a little concerned as to what I could possibly feel glad, happy and joyful about. The weather is miserable, I’m completely exhausted, yet annoyingly I can’t sleep and I couldn’t find anything worth watching on TV.
But then, as if guided by some higher power, I began flicking through the channels and stumbled upon Vintage TV – a channel dedicated to vintage music. And there I had it – my reason for today.
Day 3, Reason 3 – I am thrilled that so many of the greatest songs were released in 1979 a.k.a the year I was born!
As my thumb was poised on the remote ready to continue onto the next channel, a familiar piano tinkle caught my attention and my mood instantly started to lift.
“At first I was afraid, I was petrified…”
Now, who can possibly sit still when they hear that? I was off – Exaggerated, crazy dancing from the comfort of the sofa, singing at the top of my voice and beaming from ear to ear. Incredible what a piece of music can do!
Then it popped up on the screen – “I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor 1979.” How cool, I thought! I must add at this point that I have actually met Gloria Gaynor and seen her perform “I Will Survive.” Amazing!
So, I was smiling at last and feeling pretty good, when next up was Sultans of Swing – Dire Straits – also 1979. More dancing and singing ensued, slightly less crazy this time.
And just when I thought that things couldn’t get any better, I heard “Tonight, I’m going to have myself a real good time.”My all time favourite song and guess what? Yep, it was released in 1979.
I love “Don’t Stop Me Now”, as it’s such a joyous, optimistic song about enjoying life to the fullest and it makes me want to get up and dance, no matter how bad I am feeling.
The song brought me to my feet and sent me dancing off round the living room, my dogs started barking and wagging and I can assure you that everyone was “having a good time, having a good time!” Sorry, I couldn’t resist!
So, a big thank you to Freddie Mercury and Queen for making my day and giving me a very good reason to feel joyful. And I also want to thank all the brilliant recording artists who made 1979 such an awesome year to be born.
Here are a few more:
Tragedy – Bee Gees
We Are Family – Sister Sledge
Don’t Stop Till You Get Enough – Michael Jackson
And…wait for it…
Y.M.C.A – Village People 
362 days to go
362 reasons to feel glad/happy/joyful to find
Don’t stop me now!
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I have felt compelled to write about Dr Wayne Dyer a truly inspirational figure in my life. I have only read one of his 30 books and yet his words and ideas have had the biggest impact on me in such a short space of time. His book "Wishes fulfilled" which is all about connecting to your higher and highest self and manifesting the life, desires and experiences that you would like to have in your life. In my opinion this book is a deeper, more spiritual version of "The secret" written by Rhonda Byrne- which might I add is another book I love, which I would recommend you read.
Wayne Dyer is such a lovely man!
See interview with Wayne Dyer  below- (it is definitely worth watching.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXbTr0nN8aI
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Everything happens for a reason- Attraction in action
Someone I who I am very close to experienced the law of attraction first hand in a very big and profound way. This lady new and about the law of attraction and had read many books and material over the years. At the time she lived in quite a isolated area and was part of a religion that she was not happy in but as she had been brought up a certain way and any friends she had were part of the religion, I think she felt trapped but didn't really know how to break free. She began to tell herself that when she was 40 she would start a brand new life, she did not know what this life would look, be or feel like, all she new was that it would happen. This lady lets call her Sunshine, whose personality reminds of, did not know how she was going to get there as she felt so much holder her back, even her very own conditioned nature.    A number of years later the recession happened! as it did for many people, her husband could not find enough work and eventually had no choice but to immigrate to England, the country he was born into and grew up in. Her husband had always been a very intelligent and hard-working man and he was determined to make a NEW start in England for himself and his family although it pained him to be away from a wife and a family he loved so dearly. Sunshine missed him with all her heart, she did not attend the church she was brought up in as she felt she could not face this on her own. She, him and the family stayed strong through this time. Eventually after about a year Sunshine, her husband and family settled in England once again, it was tough for a while but her husband started a successful new company and made a good living. Sunshine got a new job that brought her fulfillment and a new purpose as she had been a stay at home mum for most of her life. She began to truly connect with herself and her own personal spirituality, she let go of her childhood religion for the better which allowed her to, for the first time follow her own path and allow belief and being just to come to her. I speak to her now and she will say to you that she has a new life, a life that she always wanted, a new start! one that she had envisioned for herself and life is only getting better.
Now in my opinion that is an incredible story and a true example of attraction in action, although at some point Sunshine would not have thought positively about her financial circumstances and her husband having to move so far away, but she maintained the belief that her life would change and yes it did. Things happen for a reason! We need to "sit back and not get in the way of our own magnificence"  and believe that we are connected to a universal source that will always provide for us if we put our faith in "the way" of things. :-)
Anita Moorjani
"Dying to be me"
My(HER) Journey from Cancer, to Near Death to true Healing
I must share with you another book recommendation that was also discussed in Dr Wayne Dyer's "Wishes fulfilled" and I feel is worth contemplating in order to continue on the path to discovering and becoming aware of that all powerful source.  Website: http://anitamoorjani.com/
Blurg- from Anita's book
In this truly inspirational memoir, Anita Moorjani relates how, after fighting cancer for almost four years, her body - overwhelmed by the malignant cells spreading throughout her system- began shutting down. As her organs failed, she entered into an extraordinary near-death experience where she realized her inherent worth... and the actual cause of her disease. Upon regaining consciousness , Anita found that her condition had improved so rapidly that she could be released from the hospital within weeks... without a trace of cancer in her body!
Within these pages, Anita recounts stories of her childhood in Hong Kong, her challenge to establish her career and find true love, as well as how she eventually ended up in the hospital bed where she defied all medical knowledge.
As part of a traditional Hindu family, Anita had been pushed and pulled by cultural and religious customs since she was a young girl. After years of struggling to forge her own path while trying to meet everyone elses expectations, she had a realization- as a result of her epiphany on the other side that she had the power to heal herself... and that there are miracles in the Universe that she had never even imagined.
In Dying to be me, Anita freely shares all she has learned about illness, healing, fear, 'being love' and the true magnificence of each and every human being.
What Wayne Dyer said about Anita and her book 
"For more than four years , an advancing cancer brought Anita to deaths doorstep and beyond inside the house of death itself.  Anita has described in great detail in this soul-searching book. I encourage you to read it very carefully and thoughtfully with a mind that's open to having many of your cherished beliefs challenged, especially about what lies beyond this world."
from my own understanding and what I am learning on a deep personal level about the law of attraction and the universal source that we are all part of is very precious to me I am gradually allowing myself to open up and to let it all come to me. I am learning not to worry about what the answer is to my questions, I am letting go of doubts and just living in contentment and I am anticipating a great present and future for myself.   I have posted this on two of my blog pages as I feel this information fits in with sharing experiences but also my journey to apply the Tao Te Ching.
I HAVE JUST ATTRACTED AND MANIFESTED SOME MOST NEEDED ADVISE!!!
if you have read my gratitude diary you will know that I needed to stop worrying about how I was writing my blog and to just enjoy it, here is what Wayne said indirectly to me

Are You a Writer?

 

People ask me about writing all the time. How does it work? How can they get their message out to the world? On the recent Hay House I Can Do It cruise, I spoke to the Writer’s Workshop which was one of the programs given on the ship. What a great group of eager, empowered, and energetic people! I told them that it all hinges on what Abraham Maslow taught me many years ago when I was a young doctoral student. He told me to put forth what I wanted, my work, my message, and then detach from the outcome. This is true for any life work because the work itself must be what is satisfying and fulfilling for you. Writing is challenging work because it’s so easy to get consumed with how it’s going, what’s going to happen to it, who’s going to like or not like it. You want to get all of that stuff out of your head and just let the work flow. If you incarnated to be a writer, if that is your passionate calling, then you’ll be getting messages from Source, from Spirit, leading you in that direction.
If you are thinking these thoughts and being guided to write, remember that you incarnated to be a writer, not necessarily an editor. Your first job is to write and not to apply a critical eye to your work without first letting it pour forth. Writing is like anything else—the more you do it, the better you get at it, the easier it comes and the less concerned you’ll be about what’s going to happen to it, where it’s going, what it sounds like, whether it’s right. After my four decades of writing, I have a practice that works beautifully for me. I just let the ideas flow through my heart. I don’t write with a machine. I write with a pen and a paper which is what is most comfortable for me. I just let it flow, and I have a wonderful editor who’s been with me for 32 years. I let her take care of all the details.
To get started, forget the details and let your ideas come out on paper. Get your passion on the paper. Let the passion that you feel come through. You won’t be able to stop and it will be the best writing you ever did. Detach from the outcome. Forget about whether it’s going to get published, whether it’s good or not good, whether it’s the right thing. There is no right in this. Let it come; be an instrument of flow. It’s the practice that makes it work out. If you told me you had a lousy backhand in tennis, wouldn’t I tell you to go out and hit 1000 backhand shots this week? Keep doing what you love to the best of your ability. Stop judging and get out of your own way.  I always tell audiences when I talk about writing: Writing isn’t something I do, writing is something that I am. I am writing—it’s just an expression of me. Is that how it is for you?
Wayne Dyer you inspire me, thank you!
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